Having dinner together
In this post, Susan commented that she “really enjoyed the discussion.”
Last night, a lady in our church got this bright idea to invite some of her friends to an inpromptu potluck grill out (aka barbeque, cookout, shindig, etc…). This week Carie is away taking a class for AP Spanish certification (or certificacion, if you please), and so I popped over to the house of the fam having the grill out and we had a great time eating and chatting and enjoying one another’s company. Four or five families took the family up on her offer and community was built – just like that.
Now in the process, Susan shared something that was she was going to be going through on Thursday and it led to this pretty intense, 2008 style discussion where everyone chimed in and gave their opinion (their were a wide variety of opinions by the way) using Scripture, real life circumstances, and stories of what people around us have gone through considering this subject.
In the end, I was able to see about 4 different opinions to a really hard topic and appreciate why several people in my church think and believe certain things about life. And I wonder what would happen if more people decided to give away their nights to a community of friends and acquaintences in an effort to get to know people more, rather than sitting in front of a tv or working on the lawn. (2 things I didn’t say in this statement: 1. Sitting in front of a tv is wrong. 2. Working on the lawn is wrong. Thank you) Would our lives change for the better or worse? Would you feel stifled with too much community or could you use a bit more, even with your friends?
So I’d like to thank my friends (4 different life groups in our church represented) who took a step with me and in the spur of the moment decided they could use a night with friends. I sure could because I miss Carie a lot!
This post was specifically written for Randy Elrod’s Watercooler Wednesday!
