Archive for August, 2008

Sunday Mornings @ Fellowship

Aug 28 2008 Published by under Sunday mornings @ Fellowship


This week at Fellowship, I have the privilege of conducting our Parent Commitment and Baby dedication ceremony.  This is my fourth time here at FC that I have conducted this special service, and I never grow tired of seeing parents make a commitment to entrusting their children back to God.

There will be 7 families making this commitment and dedicating their children, so this should be an amazing service at Fellowship Church.  If you attend FC, please don’t miss either of the next two services, because on September 7th, we’ll be having my cousin, Jake Holman, playing music for us that Sunday Morning @ Fellowship.  You can listen to Jake’s music here.

Right now I absolutely love what God is doing and what God is going to do through our church this fall. 

If you can feel it, give me a shout out!

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The Rainbow Dilemma

Aug 27 2008 Published by under Spiritual life,Uncategorized


Rarely do I rant and rave about a particular topic on my blog.  I just try to share experiences I’ve gone through in my life, so that you may be able to relate or learn from any of these experiences.  Today’s post needs to start off with this explaining, because I’m not ranting and raving, I’m just writing an experience.

In this post I shared that on my vacation, Carie and I drove to the tip of Massachusetts to go to the beach.  This is a place known as Provincetown, and has a particular reputation of being inhabited heavily by the homosexual community.  The beach was small and private and we were pretty much with a small handful of people the whole day.

That evening however, we drove to the downtown area of P-Town where the shops are world renowned for all things art.  We began to walk through the crowded streets, and I instantly knew I had never been in a setting like this.  I’ve seen guys holding hands with guys and shows like Grey’s Anatomy on Television have tried really hard to push their agenda of making me think this is normal behavior, but this atmosphere proclaimed things that I had never seen before.

Almost the entire town it seemed, save for a handful of shop dwellers, derived their identities and festivities from dressing opposite of their culturally perceived genders (aka drag queens), walking around in their underwear, or simply holding hands with their loved ones who happened to be the same gender.

Now before you judge me for being a biggot or old-fashioned or a compromiser or whatever you might judge me based on your perspective of what I’ve written so far, you should know that I believe that sex is a gift from God, is part of his plan to populate the earth, and is designed especially for a married man and a married woman (to each other, by the way).

The purpose of this post, which I’m sure will receive both positive and negative comments,  is not to bring condemnation on these actions though, but to bring condemnation to the church.  About halfway through the town, there was a big white church, as there commonly is in the center of most towns in the US.  It was a mainline denomination.  There was an event going on at the chuch the same evening I walked through the town.  It wasn’t music (though there was a drag queen singing karaoke nearby), and it wasn’t sharing the true love of God that comes through Jesus Christ.  It was Bingo.

In fact, as I walked by, the bingo dj yelled out as loud as he (or she) could, “O-69″ to the wild cheers of the crowd around.

I was sick.  And I thought to myself, “Why aren’t we doing something about this?”  I don’t mean something like hand out gospel tracks and preach against the long hair and short skirts of the passerbys, I mean, “Why has the church of Jesus Christ just abandoned this town.  Why wasn’t anyone doing something? 

I’ll be asking myself this question for a while, and my prayer is that God would consume me with the answer and the remedy.  My hope is that someday my church will be able to plant a church that leads people into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ in provincetown, Mass.  A church that will not have a freakin bingo game in the middle of the city during night life or even have a nerdy guy with a bullhorn yelling “you’re going to hell!”, but will be a shining light of the love of God in a place that mistakenly believes that “feeling good” is what life is all about.

Until then, may God continue to burden you and I for people and places like this.  May we get ourselves out of our Christian ghettos.

Things I didn’t say in this post
Homosexuals are going to hell. (No more than the deacon who is into porn or the pastor who cheats on his wife deserves hell.  Or the girlscout who steals money from her cookie sales.  Sin is sin is sin.  God hates all of it.)
Homosexuals are a lower class of people. (They are not.)
Homosexuals are going to heaven.  (Jesus said:  “I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the father, but by me” )

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I want to get away! I want to fly away!

Aug 26 2008 Published by under Life

You can thank this guy for the title of this post.

I thought a lot about the value of vacation on vacation.  I know it’s a bit redundant, but thinking is occasionally a specialty of mine.  (Like the time I thought it would be a good idea to take a newspaper stand with my friend Dave, put it in the car, and take it to my apartment-well maybe not that time)

In all this thinking, I began to realize the incredible value of getting away. Not for a day or an evening, but for a good solid week or two.  To be removed from ones every day surroundings is actually quite a blessing.  Like the child or teen who goes away to camp, there’s something about removing yourself from what you’re always doing and always thinking and being with the people you’re always with that makes you appreciate what you always do, think, or who you’re with.

I can even help you to realize when you need a change in your situation.  You come away from vacation saying thinks like:
“I need to do better” 
“I need to make that change”  (not unlike M.J.’s “Man in the Mirror” mantra)
or even
“I need to get out of Dodge.”
However or whatever you might do on vacation, a week or two during specific times of the year can be a huge improvement to your life.  More than that can make you lazy.  Less than that can transform you into Dickens most prized antagonist ‘Ebenezer Scrooge’.  And it doesn’t have to be in the lap of luxury…

It just needs to be away.

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The Great Es”Cape”

Aug 25 2008 Published by under Life

I’m back from vacation. Carie and I had an amazing time hanging in Cape Cod, and specifically Eastham, Massachusetts. I have a lot to write about, but for right now I’m going to stick with the facts.

Where: Eastham, Massachusetts est. 1644
When: Saturday, August 16th to Saturday, August 23rd
How: By car, the 2003 Nissan Altima
Who: Carie and I, along with our two close friends, Ray and Joanna Pierce

A Highlight Breakdown by day
Saturday: Carie and I arrived at the cottage, located about 3/10 of a mile from the beach. We walked to the bay, and drove to the National seashore (Atlantic Ocean). A cool, distant thunderstorm shot lightening from the sky over the Ocean. MIchael Phelps pretty much showed himself the man.

Sunday: Carie and I drove to Cape Cod Church in Falmouth, Massachusetts. Then we went to the beach. Beautiful day! In the evening, Carie established her dominance over me at Rummikub. I told her she could have it.

Monday: Went to the beach but it was too hot. Carie coudn’t hack it. Ray and Joanna finally made it (they were at her sisters wedding), and we spent the evening talking and watching the Olympics.

Tuesday: It was a dark a stormy day. Winds up to 50 and 60mph in the cape. We played games, talked, and read.

Wednesday: Joannas family has this terrific camping place up in Provincetown where people bring their self contained campers to the beach So we spent the day there soaking in the rays, swimming in the Atlantic (where the pilgrims landed) and eating clams. Amazing! The evening we went to the shops in P-town. That was different.

Thursday: We were all tired so we chilled and read and watched the Olympics. Hey, it’s vacation! I also ran every day on the beach here in Eastham. It was beautiful but today I hurt my knee a bit.

Friday: Marty’s Birthday! I turned 33. In the morning Ray and I laid around reading while the ladies drove to the Atlantic Spice Company. Later we went to the beach one final time. For my birthday dinner we went to Red Barn Pizza and Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream (I ran all week, lay off me) and I was surprised by Carie as she had invited our friends Steve and Amy MacArthur to join us for the evening. I was totally surprised. We hung out the rest of the evening, talking and laughing. Thanks to Facebook for reminding so many people it was my birthday.

Saturday: We packed up and went home. It was a great week.

Books I read on my vacation
The Appeal by John Grisham
The No Complaining Rule by Jon Gordon
Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris
The Stranger on the Road to Emmaus by John Cross

More tomorrow! I missed the blog world, but I loved vacation.

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My Last Days Blogging

Aug 15 2008 Published by under A bit of everything

So today is my last day of blogging, because I’m going on vacation tomorrow, and I’ve decided not to bring my computer with me for the festivity of rest.  This will be the first time I haven’t blogged for more than a week since I started blogging in early October 2007, so it will be a welcome break.  Who knows, maybe I’ll come up with some fresh ideas for the blog. 
Thank you to all of you who read, subscribe, or just take a looksy at Martyholman.com.  I love writing stuff, and sharing back and forth.
Todays Friday afteroon at the Internet Video will be my last blog until Monday, August 25th. 
Until then, a few thoughts:

My height is not 5-2, It’s actually 6’3″. 5-2 is my people/week ratio.
Wanna help Claire?  Some crazy awesome people already have!
I will be microblogging using Twitter, which connects to my Facebook account.  You can follow me here.
I want to read two books, though I don’t know which ones yet, on vacation.  Any suggestions?
I’m so excited to be a part of Fellowship Church in Holden, Massachusetts!  I believe this fall is going to be one of the most amazing seasons we’ve ever seen at our church.  Just like I believe this summer has been.  We’ve been building community like never before, seeing people growing in their relationship with Jesus Christ, and I believe God is preparing us for something big.
My cousin, Jake is going to be playing at our church on Sunday, September 7th.  You will want to be here for that!

So that’s all for now. Thanks for reading and enjoying or not enjoying my written communication via the internet. 

Live Different!


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I’m a 5-2

Aug 14 2008 Published by under Relationships

Last night I had a cookout/bbq/grill out/shin dig with the lead team of FC.  We jumped into conversation soon into our meal about people and whether we would rather be with people or be alone.
In order to quantify (in a very chill sort of way) the statistics, we numbered the results this way:

How many days of the week would you want to be with people?
How many days of the week would you want to be alone?

A few things to keep in mind that counted in the results:
First of all, “being with people” does not count being in an atmosphere that you are naturally in. For instance, being “at home” or “at work” or even in the case of the team last night, “at church” did not count.
For you, being “at church” might very well count if you don’t have to be there.
Secondly, “Being with people” only counts as the amount of days you would go somewhere you don’t have to be to spend time with someone else.
Thirdly, The time you would spend with said people would have to be at least one hour.
Lastly, This number doesn’t reflect what you might actually do, but what would like to do based completely on your natural tendencies or personality. 

Having said all of that, here are the results from some of the people there last night. 

Al Dancy:  7-0  He obviously doesn’t like to be alone.
Steve Blumer:  1-6 
Erica Dancy:  3-4
Ben Erickson:  4-3 not part of the lead team, but he likes food (and barely people).
Billy McGuiness:  6-1  Billy and Al should hang out, except for one day.
Carie Holman:  3-4
Jeff Campbell:  2-5  I can’t remember if this number is accurate.
Kiley Campbell:  3-4
Marty Holman:  5-2

Interesting huh?  A few things to keep in mind; First of all there is no win or losses here, everyone has different personalities.  Second, just because you are one thing doesn’t mean you can’t learn to do something more or less.  For instance, it would not be healthy for Al to be with people outside of his home seven days a week, and Steve is very very friendly when he’s out and about.  Just because you’re tendency is to stay in doesn’t mean you can’t learn to enjoy the company of people for the sake of bigger purposes in your life.  Also, and I’m not sure if this is just a coincidence, but all the ladies that gave answers answered the same way.  4-3.

Now help me out.  What do you think you are?


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Make your Meal

Aug 13 2008 Published by under Relationships


Tonight I’m having a cookout at my house.  Please pick one your faves in each section to create the best meal ever:

Main course
T-Bones
Ribeye
Sirloin Tips
Sausage
Chicken
Shrimp Skewers

2nd dish
Baked Potato
Grilled Veggies
Rice pilaf
Dinner Rolls
Potato Salad
Nachos with cheese

Salads and such
Garden Salad
Ceasar salad
7 layer salad
Pasta salad

Beverages
Coke
Pepsi
Water
Lemonade
Beer
Wine
Pool water

Dessert
ice cream sandwiches
Popsicles
Ice cream cake
Pie

Your turn.  Make your fave cookout meal.


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Bring it back

Aug 13 2008 Published by under Family,Relationships


A shameless attempt at capturing your attention.  This post is about relationships, not P.B., though I do mention it.


Occasionally things go unchecked…specifically in the form of relationships.  Stuff gets busy and next thing you know, those you love and care about the most get the shaft when it comes to time with you.
Think of all the things that need your attention:
Your spouse.
Your kids.
Your church.
Your extended family.
Your work.
Your friends.
Your finances.
Your extra curricular activities.

And by the time it’s all said and done, a lot of the time we are spread thin and time with the wife or the husband is almost non-existent. I don’t mean time as in, “Good morning honey, here’s your breakfast”or “I took the trash out, gotta run.”  I mean quality time with you and your spouse.  If you’re single, I mean quality time with the ones who you love the most and who love to pour out their lives into you.

Last night Carie and I returned home from a visit to visit Carie’s dad, and we realized we hadn’t spent enough time with just the two of us.  So I shut off my phone around 6:30 pm and we hung out, talked, watched some TV (Prison Break 3 represent), did a little cooking together, and focused on one another.  It was one of the best nights I’ve had this summer, and I’ve had several good ones.  But the truth is, we needed this time.  Busy had become a buzz word for our lives, and though I’m big on relationships, my relationship with Carie is the most important.

So how are you feeling with the status of that all-important earthly relationship?  Bring it back and check things out.  This cannot be left unchecked for long, or this is detrimental to the relationship.  Check yourself today.  When was the last time I spent good quality time with that person or those people I love the most?

You may be surprised by the answer.


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Food and Drink

Aug 12 2008 Published by under Family

Tom @ the olive garden.  yum!
Last night Carie and I drove with Carie’s sister Jessica to Enfield Ct. where Carie’s dad Tom is staying for the week because of work.  We took the opportunity to go to the Olive Garden, and enjoy an amazing meal.  I was hungry.
One of the more interesting things that happened while we were there happened with Jessica.  She’s a waitress at Via’s Italian Table in Worcester, and so she’s very particular when she goes into another restaurant.  During the course of the evening, she ordered 4 different drinks (not just at Olive Garden, but also at Starbucks):
Red Wine
Bottled water
Cappacino
Cappacino

As you can imagine, her bill was up there, but on to the point of the story.
First of all, our waitress was new and there were some pretty awkward moments throughout the evening.  Like we would ask her a question and she wouldn’t know the answer (this happened several times), or we would ask her for something and she would forget (this happened two times).

I didn’t mind so much, but the last straw for Jessica was when her cappacino didn’t have any foam.  yes feel free to read that sentence again.  No Cappacino.  As you probably know, there are worse things to happen in life and we all had a laugh at the expense of Jessica because it appeared she was taking this personal.  Later on we had to go to Starbucks in order to get a real Cappacino with foam!

I write all this because it makes me think about how much I have as an American, and how I need to treat people who serve me in some way with respect.  I know I’m paying for service, but bad servers not withstanding, I need to treat everyone I come across like I would want to be treated.

Serve first, eat second.

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Watching or Doing?

Aug 11 2008 Published by under sports and fitness

I’ve been watching the Olympics over the weekend.  It’s been great seeing unbelievable competition so far and I’ve been very impressed with the sportsmanship of the U.S.A teams, specifically the sweet defeat of France by our men’s swimmers immediately after the French team said they were going to smash the Americans.
This morning Carie and I had some much needed chill time after a busy weekend, and we decided to sit down and watch our taping of last night’s coverage.  Afterwards, I decided to run.  I’ve been running pretty much every morning for over a month now, but it was pouring out, but I still felt compelled to go running. 
Now I’m trying to figure out if I wanted to run because I was watching the Olympics, or because I’ve been doing it regularly? 
My favorite sports so far have been swimming and volleyball.  The competion has been great, nothing short of thrilling actually.

What’s been your favorite moment in the Olympics so far?

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